Woot

Thanks for all of your input ^ ^. I needed them so I could show it to a friend, so I could prove it that I wasn’t the only one who thought that way… Well we just had different views, regarding this case. Ummm… I got a call from a girl, she didn’t want to mention her name. She was like “I don’t think I need to tell you my name. You know what, you’ve ruined my life.” I thought it was some of my friends giving me a prank call, so at first I was like “Hahaha, who is it? Are you kidding? Not funnyyy.” And she kept saying it, “You’ve ruined my life,” still with the same plain tone… I was real scared cus she reminded me to those horror movies. I asked her what I did, and she just told me to think about it myself. She told me to review myself and to look at myself. Can you imagine how confused I was? I tried to think real hard, maybe I hit someone while I was sleeping? “What did I do…?” And she yelled “DON’T PLAY INNOCENT WITH ME!!!!!!” :woot: *shocked* :shocked:

I kind of recognized her voice, but I wasn’t sure. I was worried, starting to think about my friends. NO, my friends wouldn’t do such things. Starting to think if it was one of the sunday school kids’ parents or relatives? Cus last week I made a mistake when we were preparing for Easter celebration, I didn’t check that some milk cartoons that I put in the gift bags were already expired. That problem was solved, but did we miss some bags and some kids got poisoned or something? I got TOTALLY freaked out. And the girl still didn’t want to tell me what her point was, she finally hung up on me.

I called K’Sisca and K’Sandra to check if we’ve got any complains from the parents, but they said no. I called Lia, and she said maybe it was my ex’s girlfriend. Hmmm… no way, I haven’t talked to him for ages.

At night, let’s just name him “X”, called me. He asked me if his girlfriend called me that day, cus they had a big argue that morning. Her girlfriend deleted my number from his cellphone, and X got mad when he found out. So yeah, it was true that the anonymous caller was his girlfriend and he apologized to me about it… Well, as a girl like her, I understand how it is… but I just didn’t like the way how she had to express her jealousy threatening other people, it was very offensive.

I’m helping X with his thesis, translating his books and references from english to Indo, and he’s gonna have his thesis trialed on the 20th this month. If only his girlfriend would have wanted to talk to me about it. I don’t even know X that much, he’s my friend’s friend. My friend introduced him to me cus he needed a big help on his thesis. He only talked to me when he wanted to discuss his references. So I don’t understand what’s to be jealous about.

My friends had different views with me on this, they said if I was in her position I would’ve been jealous too. They said it’s bcus I didn’t have a boyfriend that’s why I couldn’t put myself in her shoes *wekz*. Even IF I really needed to talk to this other girl (but I guess I’m too narcist for that), I would have mentioned who I was so at least we could’ve cleared some things up and save a lot of time. Just think about it rationally, you know your boyfriend’s gonna have his thesis trialed in 2 weeks. He’s 25 and he’s been in college for 7 years, more than how long it’s supposed to be and if he fails on this one he’s gonna have to spend more money for the next semester or even get dropped out. What you can do is giving him support he needs, at least understand that for 2 weeks he needs his time to do his thing. Whining to other people saying that they’ve ruined your life? Gosh is that necessary? Somebody please shoot me.